mak ngah mon (refer to the earlier entry) passed away peacefully in her sleep after a week in coma due to stroke. jenazah telah dibawa balik ke kediaman di taman ehsan, hubby and hani hadir ke pengkebumian immediatelty after solat asar but couldnt stay for the tahlil cos anak2 semua tak ikut. mak, kak long, kak ani and busu mail were also there. al-fatihah ..
8.30 am fri, 9th jan
as usual hani will be calling cek to hear the updates in pmas. was so shocked to hear cek crying on the other side, ayoh kena heart attack masa subuh and now, tengah urut since tak boleh gerak. at first, hani ingat my atuk yang semakin tenat but it's now my father, cikgu loh yang tak boleh bangun. had called hubby who'd just left for work, then called my brothers nd, aar and g for next action. hubby izinkan hani balik dulu ngan adik2 and we decided to walk-in kat lcct for 3 pm's flight since tickets are still available upon checking kat internet. flight was delayed due to fire and we'd took a taxi back to pmas; reached home around 6, ayoh tengah nyenyak tidur and badannya terlalu panas. cek and adik2 dah pujuk ayoh ke hospital but he refused and lepas je maghrib, we'd brought ayoh to klinik ruslan, our family doctor. ayoh was having fever and both his legs dah sembab and dr ruslan had advised us to bawa ayoh ke hospital.
9.30 am sat, 10th jan
pagi nii ramai orang kat rumah hani cos news yang cikgu loh and tok yasin tak sihat dah merebak. hani and mokcik sah, my aunt were talking depan ayoh who'd tutup mata lepas je makan ubat, was so shocked cos tiba2 je mata ayoh terbeliak and tangannya menggeletar. hani ran straight to ayoh and suruh dia mengucap while my aunty was shouting for cek who was in the kitchen. cek had urut muka and mata ayoh and bila ayoh sedar, he's not aware what had happened and sambung tidur. the whole day, ayoh had slept thru and bangun for lunch and solat je, his body condition was so weak, cam tak de tenaga gitu, btw hani had personally pegi pasar and cooked steam fish, ayoh's favourite dish.
the whole day, kami satu family dok pujuk ayoh untuk ke hospital, but his reply is always tunggu sehari dua lagi till his nephew, yo, sampai dari rpanjang. yo is the eldest son of arwah ayohsu, ayoh's only brother who'd left us 4 years ago. hani had called dr yob, a family friend and he'd promised to tunggu ayoh kat husm around 9 pm nanti. together with nd and g, hani were in the emergency ward for almost 4 hours before ayoh was warded at the 7th floor. ayoh was diagnosed with sakit jantung, paru2 berair and kaki sembab. it's nd's turn to jaga ayoh and we reached home past 2 pagi ..
sun, 11th jan
left home early with g to arrange ayoh to a single executive ward. actually this is the second time ayoh was admitted and the first was in may 2006, in kbmc bila ayoh kena stroke. well, everybody requested ayoh to be in a single room but our request was turned down since ayoh's condition is not stable, we couldnt get the approval from the specialist, the main condition to transfer patient to the executive ward. was in the ward till maghrib and cek couldnt visit ayoh since cek dah demam and arranging cek ngah to bawa balik atuk yasin kejap.
had sent sms to all my in-laws that aamal's planned engagement is postponed to a later date due to ayoh's condition. received many visitors during the visiting hours and ayoh doesn't mind staying in the open ward cos to him, he wants the best treatment but to us, anak2 nii, we are fighting for both, treatment and keselesaan; toilets kena share and jauh laa juga from the bed. malam nii, g's turn to jaga ayoh and his condition is improving, boleh bangun sendiri
mon, 12th jan
g is still making noise for ayoh to be transfered to either executive ward or kbmc. we're still appealing to medical officers to release ayoh to a better plac
e but again our request is turned down. had called dr yati, hani's sms clan for advice and she paid us a visit after work, had given her advice to all of us and ayoh was so happy to hear the clarification; ada lagi adinda2 yang tak happy with the situation. ayoh had received so many visitors and since cek was ok, we'd left her with ayoh for a while. ayoh's condition was so good and dah boleh pegi toilet sorang2 je, malam nii aar's turn to jaga ayoh lak.well, bila dok ramai2 tuu, we'd made new friends and ayoh terjumpa his old colleague, cikgu zaman muda dulu. dia pun sakit macam ayoh, jantung and paru2 but he was later transfered to 8th floor, bila kena stroke masa zohor. had met a very strong petite old lady, been in the ward for 2 weeks jaga husband cos the husband, who suffered serious kidney failure tak nak orang lain jaga kat wad ..
tue, 13th jan
had called aar and he said that ayoh dah boleh balik ari nii but has to wait for the report from bone specialist. alhamdulillah, ayoh was given the best treatment and we didnt expect kaki sembab been examined by the bone specialist. aar and g will be flying at 3 pm today; ayu and nd had sent them to the airport, tinggal laa hani sorang2 jaga ayoh kat ward.
dapat released letter around 4 pm, since ayoh tengah tidur, hani left to settle the cheapest bill ever, had collected a 3- month medication ration and ayoh's next appointments. oh, masa lunch, one old patient died due to heart attack. ayoh teringin makan nasi kerabu and we had singgah beli kat town, had reached home almost maghrib. hubby called informing of aamal's accident on the way to college ..
wed, 14th jan
since ayoh is back home, senang laa sikit hani nak plan for the day's activity. decided to be back in rawang on thursday with 3 pm flight. with ayu, hani went to rpanjang and pencarian ku telah berakhir cos hani managed to buy all is needed for aamal's engagement. first time hani kena bayar tax kat kastam in rpanjang. kami singgah at moon kopitiam on the way to the airport. balik rumah almost maghrib and visitors masih ramai.
thu, 15th jan
decided to have breakfast kat salor, pekena nasi kerabu and ayam bakar with nd and ayu. had tapau nasi kerabu with ayam and daging bakar for ayoh and cek. singgah kat pasar to buy beras nasi dagang, beras pulut and rempah2 to bring home. had also bought small kuih baulu for visitors kat rumah cek and also to bawa balik. time is running so fast and had to kemas kotak before keluar lagi to beli ayam percik at lemal for my loved ones back home. received call from my cousin, cikgu yati ajak lunch kat rumah baru dia but had to turn down since masa tidak mengizinkan. left rumah cek after 2.30 pm and at 6 pm, hani dah ada dalam kereta hubby to home sweet home ..
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